It’s hard to blog (and why I’m trying anyway)

I started blogging 15 years ago. There's value in writing something longer, with actual paragraphs and bigger thoughts. It's easier to read and find older blog posts. And because they take longer to put together, blog posts feel less disposable compared to Tweets.


A Cool Girlâ„¢ on my own terms

Almost every modern woman goes through the struggle described in the Cool Girl rant of the book Gone Girl. "Why don't men like me? Am I not thin/funny/smart/chill/hot/guy-like enough? Do I remind them too much of their mothers? Do I come off as too needy or not interesting enough for them? What the hell is the issue?"

And you may find yourself

I've been in New York for two weeks. It's long enough for me to fill a kitchen with the necessities, unpack my stuff, and for things to finally sink in. That I live here. That I go to Columbia. I can plan to do things and see friends weeks from now. The dream is finally real, and now it's time to get to work.